Co-Parenting App

Co-parenting shouldn't feel like a second job.

Verlae gives separated families the tools to share what matters — calmly, clearly, and without the group chat chaos. Handover Mode, shared custody calendar, and communication tools built for two-household life.

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The Two-Household Problem

When your kids live between two homes, the cracks multiply.

It's not about forgetting. It's about information living in the wrong place — and no system built to bridge the gap.

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Three apps, four group chats — nothing complete
Texts with the other parent, a shared notes app that nobody opens, a calendar only you can see. Nothing tells the full story.
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Handovers that end with "I didn't know that"
Medications, moods, upcoming events, what's packed and what isn't — it all needs to travel between households. Without a system, it doesn't.
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One parent always carries the custody schedule in their head
Who has them Thursday? Who picks them up from soccer? When do they switch households for the long weekend? Someone always knows. It's never both of you.
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Arguments about what was said — and when
Without a shared record, every conversation is up for debate. What was agreed. What was changed. Who knew first.
What Verlae Does Differently

Built for co-parents. Not adapted for them.

Most family apps were built for a household where everyone lives together. Verlae was built for yours.

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Only in Verlae
Handover Mode
A calm, structured summary shared between both households before every transition. Medications, moods, packed items, events coming up. No frantic texts. No missed details.
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Shared Custody Calendar
One calendar both households can see. Colour-coded by child, by parent, by event type. No more "when do I have them" conversations.
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Only in Verlae
Change Requests
Need to swap a handover or adjust the week? Submit a request in-app. The other parent accepts, declines, or discusses — in writing, without conflict.
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Only in Verlae
Respectful Communication
Every co-parent message is scanned before it's sent. Severely harmful content is blocked entirely. For anything that might escalate, AI offers a calmer rewrite — you choose whether to send it, edit it, or keep your own words.
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Growing Up
Track each child's routines, milestones, notes, and development — consistent across both households. Everything your child is growing through, in one place in both homes.
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Privacy First
Your family's data is stored securely. Never sold. No ads. No location tracking.
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Organise everything your family needs.
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Share only what should be shared.
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Keep the rest completely private.
Your Boundaries. Your Control.

Private when it should be.
Shared when it needs to be.

Your co-parent can see everything that genuinely matters for the children. They cannot see your grocery list, your budget, your personal calendar events, or anything else in your household. That boundary is by design — and it belongs to you.

Your household only
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  • Family calendar events
  • Meal planning & grocery lists
  • Household budget & finances
  • Cleaning & chore rosters
  • Home maintenance records
  • Shopping lists
  • Personal reminders & notes
  • Family documents & vault
  • Partner communication
Shared between households
🤝 Shared when it matters
  • Custody schedule
  • Handover dates & summaries
  • School events & excursions
  • Child activities & appointments
  • Medical reminders (where shared)
  • Change requests
  • Respectful Communication messages
  • Shared child documents
Works Even If They Don't

Your co-parent doesn't have to use Verlae for it to help you.

One household gets full value on its own. Handover summaries can be shared as a simple link or PDF — so the other household sees everything they need, no account required. When they're ready to join, the invite takes 30 seconds.

You control exactly what they can see. You approve who's in. You're always in charge of your household.

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Questions about co-parenting with Verlae

Do both co-parents need to pay?

No. One family subscription covers both households. The primary account holder pays the subscription, and can invite the co-parent at no extra cost. OurFamilyWizard charges each parent separately — Verlae doesn't.

What if my co-parent refuses to use it?

Verlae still gives you enormous value on your own. You get a structured handover system, your own custody calendar, kids' routines, and document storage. Handover summaries can be shared externally via link or PDF, so your co-parent sees the information without needing an account.

Can I control what my co-parent can see?

Yes. You approve every person who joins your family account, and you control their role and permissions. You can limit access to specific areas — they can see handover information without having access to your personal notes or budget.

Is the communication private from my co-parent?

Yes. Each household has its own private space. The Handover Mode shares only what you choose to share. Your personal notes, planning, and family information are completely private unless you explicitly share them.

Does Verlae work for high-conflict co-parenting situations?

Yes — and it's specifically designed to help. Verlae's Respectful Communication feature scans every co-parent message before it's sent, detecting harmful and abusive language. The most severe content — threats and extreme abuse — is blocked from being sent entirely. For anything that might escalate, AI offers a calmer rewrite based on what you actually meant to say; you review it and choose whether to send it, edit it further, or keep your original. Change requests are documented in writing, all communication leaves a clear record, and Verlae helps co-parents communicate like professionals, even when it's hard.

Is Verlae available where I live?

Yes. Verlae works on iPhone, Android, and any web browser, allowing families around the world to stay organised together. We aim to respond to every enquiry within one business day.

The information your kids need in both homes — finally in one place.

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